If you don't have a plan, someone has a plan for you.
This is a profound statement and something to think about. If you, don't have your own plan, rest assured that someone has a plan for you. If you are OK with the plan(s) someone else has for you, then fine. But, what if you aren't? More than likely, the plan(s) that others make which involve you really aren't for your benefit. More than likely, the plan(s) others make, affecting you, are for their benefit.
If you haven't made plans to move your own career forward, believe that your employer is constantly making plans. But, those plans would be to enrich and move her business forward. And, however she can use you to meet her goals may or may not benefit you, but they are certainly made to benefit her.
What if you are in a relationship you know you should get out of. And what if you don't leave when you should and the other person beats you to it and leaves before you do? You are out of the relationship...but, not on your terms.
Maybe you feel you need more financial stability before you can leave the relationship or retire from working. Maybe you can take on an additional job to bring in supplemental income. Perhaps you need more training or additional classes to lead to a degree or certification which will improve your marketability.
Football teams play by a play book carrying out plays they devised for themselves. Football teams don't go out on the playing field with no game plan in place, simply hoping that plays will fall their way and with luck on their side hope to end up winning.
What's your game plan? Why not be proactive instead of reacting? Make your own plans for your own life. Determine where you want to be at a given time and then research what steps you need to take to get there. Don't just let life happen to you. Make life happen they way you want. Dream panoramically.
What about putting your own plan in place?
Successful people make their own plans and do not rely on the benevolence of others towards them.
Queens are the pieces which control the chess board, not pawns. The definition of a pawn is a person manipulated and used by others. I know you don't want to play the part of a pawn. Pawns are known as the weakest piece on the board.
What are your plans for you??
Peace
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